Monday, November 5, 2012

Scandalous!


This is our national season of discontent. Election time is a time of bitter partisanship, a time of sniping, innuendo, bitterness, suspicion, and vitriol. Yes, the facts that on Tuesday, November 6th, 2012 Americans will go to the polls, cast their vote, and go home without fear for their safety and without fear that the country will fall into anarchy based on the outcome of the national election. Regardless of your personal misgivings, there will be no tanks in the streets, barricades of burning tires, or rock-throwing protesters in the streets. We’ll all go on and in a month the politics will die in the dust and we’ll go back to our lives and personal issues.

Many times I seek refuge on the dance floor. It’s a safe place, a fantasy zone where all is music, harmony, and the one I love. In an ideal world the dance floor is about order, it is a universe in miniature, orbits within orbits. In reality, though, the dance floor is much more like the real world.. There are dancers who do the West Coast Swing to a samba, those who do a travelling dance while most people are doing a slot dance, and those to whom the beat is just a suggestion to be ignored as they see fit. To those who would say the electoral temperature and disharmony on the dance floor are both symptoms of the unraveling of society, I offer two tidbits:

The election of 1828 pit Andrew Jackson, a man famed for his temper who had participated in several duels, against John Quincy Adams, a man falsely accused of playing pimp to the Russian czar and misappropriating government funds for the purchase of a pool table. The conflict between the two candidates became so heated that, after arriving in Washington for his inauguration, Jackson refused to pay the customary courtesy call on the outgoing president. And John Quincy Adams reciprocated by refusing to attend the inauguration of Jackson.

The waltz was introduced to England sometime between 1790 and 1812 and was brought to France when Napoleon’s triumphal soldiers returned from Germany in 1805. As the first closed position dance done by aristocracy, the waltz gained a scandalous reputation. After all, dancers actually embraced, holding each other so close their bodies and even faces touched while they danced. Women were thrown around exuberantly, something considered immoral and even sinful at the time. In England, Anglican archbishops denounced the waltz as “a lust-inducing, decidedly degenerate action to be left to those hot-blooded, silly foreigners.”

So what should a level-headed person make of these examples. Maybe that the good old days weren’t always all that good and that today’s “scandal” will be tomorrow’s humorous footnote, For me it simply means that this Tuesday, after I’ve cast my vote I’ll step onto the dance floor and I’ll try to appreciate the ordered chaos that is dancing and our nation and simply marvel at the fact both continue unscathed in spite of all the so-called experts’ predictions of perdition and woe.

Friday, November 2, 2012

Halloween 2012

We didn't do anything special this year for Halloween, but then, every Halloween is special, especially when you're dancing. :-) Here we are at our two local dances, the first at Indy Singles ( we went as space people),
the second is at Indy Dancers of our favorite costume.

On to more holiday dances!!!!!!


Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Dancing: The Long Haul


The old gray mare, she ain't what she used to be,

Ain't what she used to be, ain't what she used to be.

The old gray mare, she ain't what she used to be,

Many long years ago.

You know that one? My mom used to sing it to me when I was a baby.

It happens to us all, getting older. In general I’m OK with it…you kind of have to be, right? We all have things that bother us as the years pass. My biggest challenge is losing physicality; I’ve been athletic all my life.

A few weeks ago Gary and I watched a young couple do the Lindy Hop the way we want to do it…lots of moves that involve hanging from arms and lunges that require low knee bends. These are out for us…I have shoulder problems and Gary’s knees are often creaky. Could we still do those moves? Yeah, but we might injure ourselves to the point of never dancing again. Not worth the risk.

What I'm trying to do as I get older is internalizing that although there are some things that go away, other things are gained. So... there are a million moves I can't do, but there are a million moves I CAN, such as focusing on techniques a younger version of me wouldn’t have had the patience to learn, like Argentina tango flicks and kicks.

After the young couple danced I went over to their table and told them how good they were and how much we enjoyed watching them dance. The man looked at me with wide eyes and said really? We loved watching YOU, you guys are fabulous.

So there you are. Acknowledge the past, appreciate it in others, but always remember to be the best you can be…right now.

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Tiny Bubbles



Gary and I just returned from a trip to Clear Lake, Iowa, dancing at the famous Surf Ballroom. What a treat. For those of you who dance, you know there are just not that many historic old ballrooms left. And if The Surf isn’t, as Gary would say, a grand old lady, she certainly is a frisky teen.

The décor is an over the top 50-esque idea of a fantasyland, and it really does feel as if you’d entered a mermaid’s domain: giant painted ocean murals ring the space, carved fish on every booth, blue tiled bathrooms, and best of all, a mirrored ball that projects millions of little bubbles over the dance floor.

The Surf could use some work. The wood floor needs to be redone. Badly. And the whole place has an overall tired quality, as if its better days were long past. We met some nice people. One man was surprised we’d come all the way from Indy to see the ballroom. And maybe therein lies the problem. Even with dancing enjoying a new resurgence, it still isn’t the“go to” activity  it once was.

I hope The Surf  survives. But if it doesn’t, I’m very glad I got to see it.

Monday, July 23, 2012

More KAG


Gary and I went to a roller derby bout last Saturday.

I used to watch roller derby when I was a kid after the cartoons were over, secretly longing to be a jammer; hey…I can skate, I’m small and quick. But alas, although competitive, I’m not aggressive enough to be a true roller gal. But I sure did love watching them and always wanted to go see them in person.

The stars aligned last Saturday, and they (The Circle City Socialites) were every bit as good as I hoped. The vibe is kinda retro, kinda punk rock/hip hop, kinda pin up gal. It’s a real competition, but it doesn’t take itself too seriously like other teams sports…with names like Splena Rupture and Miss B. Haven, how could it?

What I love most about it is those girls are SO themselves…they have team colors, but every player  accessorizes to her own tastes. There are rules and established plays, but they all have their own signature moves and “going to the box” (the penalty corner) is something of a badge of honor.

That’s how I feel about our dancing. Gary and I know the basics of the dances we do, but we have constructed our own style. People may love it, people may hate it, but they can’t say it isn’t us. Nobody does it like we do, and of that we are very proud.

I bought a tee shirt that says “Good Girls go to Heaven, Bad Girls go to the Box.” Yeah.

Signed,

Kelly KaBOOM

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Back to the Triple Two

About a year ago I wrote about the triple two step, a country-ish traveling dance. Gary and I worked some moves from it into our foxtrot and then kinda forgot about it, because at the time we were learning a form of vintage foxtrot. We liked the vintage fox trot, but we didn’t love it.

So we took a video of triple two step to our fabulous teacher Melissa and said as we always do, take a look at this video. We want to learn this, and oh yes, we’d like to mix in Texas two step moves and a sprinkling of foxtrot. Without a moment’s hesitation (did I say she was fab) she replied with a twinkle in her eye, so what will we call it? Foxy Triple? Texas Trot? Haha. She SO gets us.

So Melissa looked at the vid (posted below), and has already integrated some Texas two step into it along with some foxtrot moves. The triple two is fun…it’s smooth, with a slight hop while you are tripling.

So far Gary is liking Texas Triple Trot for the name. Hummmmm…sounds like a drink you’d consume at the Kentucky Derby.