Thursday, December 20, 2012

Five Boughs of Mistletoe


Five days to go, a mere work week before homes are bustling with relatives and everyone’s worried whether the feast will come off, if uncle Hershel is going to be a dweeb, and if mom will like her gift. Take a deep breath, my friends, we’re heading for the plunge!

On this sixth day I give to you mistletoe, evergreen in the boughs of the winter-bare trees and a sign of life, fertility, and rebirth. Mistletoe didn’t become popular as a Christmas decoration until the 18th century. According to custom, it must not touch the ground between its cutting and its removal as the last of Christmas greens at Candlemas. Mistletoe can remain hanging through the year as a charm against lightning or fire, until it is replaced the following Christmas Eve.

Ancient Christmas custom holds that a man and woman who meet under a hanging of mistletoe were obliged to kiss. This custom was described in 1820 by Washington Irving in his The Sketch Book of Geoffrey Crayon:

 "The mistletoe is still hung up in farm-houses and kitchens at Christmas, and the young men have the privilege of kissing the girls under it, plucking each time a berry from the bush. When the berries are all plucked the privilege ceases."

So pluck a berry or not, but spend a little time under the mistletoe with the one you love and enjoy a quiet moment before the yuletide hubbub descends. You’ll be thankful later!

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